Jumat, 13 April 2012

every woman (yes,you too!) deserves

Every Woman (Yes, You Too!) Deserves…

Someone who doesn’t hesitate to tell you that he loves you.
Someone who admits that he misses you.
Someone who is not afraid of your tears.
Someone who tells you that it’s okay to express your feelings.
Someone who listens to you but does not always agree with you.
Someone who can be honest with you even if it hurts.
Someone who trusts you with his secrets, even the dark ones.
Someone who believes in you.
Someone who’s willing to spend hours talking with you despite his crazy workloads.
Someone who makes time for you, because he wants to.
Someone who never gets tired to tell you that you are beautiful.
Someone who looks at you with love in his eyes.
Someone who does not only say “I love you” but also “Thank you for loving me”.
Someone who’s proud of you, and proudly tells his friends about you.
Someone who shows your pictures to his parents.
Someone who makes you laugh and makes your eyes shine.
And finally… finally,
Someone who doesn’t fill you with promises or empty words, but shows you what it means to love. Truly.
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*Inspired by someone who has taught me about love. I love you, each and every day.

sahabat yang baik

Seorang bijak pandai berpesan kepada anak lelakinya: “Wahai anakku, sekiranya engkau berasa perlu untuk bersahabat dengan seseorang, maka hendaklah engkau memilih orang yang sifatnya seperti berikut:

... -Jika engkau berbakti kepadanya, dia akan melindungi kamu;
-Jika engkau rapatkan persahabatan dengannya, dia akan membalas balik persahabatan kamu;
-Jika engkau memerlu pertolongan daripadanya, dia akan membantu kamu;
-Jika engkau menghulurkan sesuatu kebaikan kepadanya, dia akan menerimanya dengan baik;
-Jika dia mendapat sesuatu kebajikan (bantuan) daripada kamu, dia akan menghargai atau menyebut kebaikan kamu
-Jika dia melihat sesuatu yang tidak baik daripada kamu, dia akan menutupnya;
-Jika engkau meminta bantuan daripadanya, dia akan mengusahakannya;
-Jika engkau berdiam diri (kerana malu hendak meminta), dia akan menanyakan kesusahan kamu;
-Jika datang sesuatu bencana menimpa dirimu, dia akan meringankan kesusahan kamu;
-Jika engkau berkata kepadanya, nescaya dia akan membenarkan kamu;
-Jika engkau merancangkan sesuatu, nescaya dia akan membantu kamu;
-Jika kamu berdua berselisih faham, nescaya dia lebih senang mengalah untuk menjaga kepentinga persahabatan;
- Dia membantumu menunaikan tanggungjawab serta melarang melakukan perkara buruk dan maksiat;
- Dia mendorongmu mencapai kejayaan di dunia dan akhirat.

Sebagai remaja yang terlepas daripada pandangan ayah ibu berhati-hatilah jika memilih kawan. Kerana kawan, kita bahagia tetapi kawan juga boleh menjahanamkan kita.
Lihat Selengkapnya

ketika wanita menangis

KETIKA WANITA MENANGIS

Jika seorang wanita menangis dihadapanmu,
Itu berarti dia tak dapat menahannya lagi.
...
Jika kamu memegang tangannya saat dia menangis,
Dia akan tinggal bersamamu sepanjang hidupmu.

Jika kamu membiarkannya pergi,
Dia tidak akan pernah kembali lagi menjadi dirinya yang dulu.
Selamanya... .

Seorang wanita tidak akan menangis dengan mudah,
Kecuali didepan orang yang amat dia sayangi. Dia menjadi lemah.

Seorang wanita tidak akan menangis dengan mudah,
Hanya jika dia sangat menyayangimu, Dia akan menurunkan rasa egoisnya.

Lelaki, jika seorang wanita pernah menangis karena mu,
Tolong pegang tangannya dengan pengertian.
Dia adalah orang yang akan tetap bersamamu sepanjang hidupmu.

Lelaki, jika seorang wanita menangis karenamu.
Tolong jangan menyia-nyiakannya.
Mungkin karena keputusanmu, kau merusak kehidupannya.

Saat dia menangis didepanmu, Saat dia menangis karnamu,
Lihatlah matanya....
Dapatkah kau lihat dan rasakan sakit yang dirasakannya?

Pikirkan....
Wanita mana lagikah yang akan menangis dengan murni, penuh rasa sayang,
Didepanmu dan karenamu.... ..

Dia menangis bukan karena dia lemah
Dia menangis bukan karena dia menginginkan simpati atau rasa kasihan

Dia menangis,
Karena menangis dengan diam-diam
tidaklah memungkinkan lagi.

Lelaki
Pikirkanlah tentang hal itu

Jika seorang wanita menangisi hatinya untukmu,
Dan semuanya karena dirimu.

Inilah waktunya untuk melihat apa yang telah kau lakukan untuknya,
Hanya kau yang tahu jawabannya.. ..

Pertimbangkanlah

Karena suatu hari nanti
Mungkin akan terlambat untuk menyesal,
Mungkin akan terlambat untuk bilang 'MAAF'!!

Who Ate The Bread

WHO ATE THE BREAD?

Once upon a time, there were an old man and his son lived in a suburb. His wife has died when the boy was two years old. She got heart attack. The old man loved his son so much that he gave everything his son asked. It was because he did not want to see his son sad. He did not want to lose his only on, as he had already lost his wife. He wanted to grow his son well, so that his wife could smile.

The boy named Han. Han was sixteen and was a charming boy. He was oval-faced, thanks to his thin cheek. His eyes were as deep as the blue sea. He had a pointed nose—which shone when the sunlight passed on it. His lip was as nice as a thin cut-lemonade.

Just a week later, he would have his birthday party. The party would be the greatest party ever. All villagers would be invited to attend the party. Their house would be beautifully decorated by the professional decorators. Han’s father took his son to the most branded saloon in the city. He got his new hair-style. He also got some expensive shirts, T-shirts, and trousers that they bought in famous stores.

The day Han and his father were waiting for was coming. Han was dressed up well by the young talented artists. He wore a white shirt combined with a black jacket. He looked more handsome in that suit. The guests were also young, gorgeous girls. They tried to attack Han’s attention by wearing expensive gown and twinkle accessories. They all looked pretty, just like fairies in story tales. Some boys also attended the party. But, they were not as charming as Han.

When all guests were talking about what they were going to show to Han--in order to attacked his attention, he came out of his bedroom and greeted them. All girls stood up and were surprised to see their charming prince. The party began. The music turned on.

Some pretty girls came close to Han. Han was not interested with them, except a girl. The girl was wearing a worn, flashy pink with races on the bottom-edge costume. She did not put any accessories on her hair, unlike other girls. Her eyes were as cold as the ice in the north-pole. Her face was gloomy, just like a child who lost her beloved mother. She was sitting alone next to the pile of groceries.

Han walked up to the girl. He did not talk to her. He just looked deeply into her eyes while squatting on the ground. Then, Han began to talk. He asked the girl’s name and her intention to attend to his party. Actually, she did not want to attend Han’s birthday party. Besides that, she disliked Han and his father, that they were arrogant. She attended Han’s birthday party was just because her parents asked her to.

Did Han angry to the girl? No, he did not. Han admitted his and his father’s arrogance. Why did he do that? It was because he fell in love with the girl. He fell in love in the first sight. He saw an outstanding beauty in that girl. The girl was different from other girls. She had beautiful eyes. Her smile was like a fairy’s, eventhough she was not smiling. Her face was as bright as a full-moon. She gave a warm to Han, the warm that could never make him took his eyes off of her.

Han turned on his motorcycle. He rode it and took the girl with him. Everyone was thunderstruck. Some girls jumped on conclusion that Han was crazy. They were very disappointed because Han preferred to take the very strange and flashy girl rather than to choose them—who had given their best performance for him. Even some girls cried that they were not able to be Han’s girlfriend.

It was almost a year that Han had not come back to his house. There was no news where he was. The girl was not at her house, either. Han’s father went to see a well known shaman to look for his son. The shaman told him that Han was brought by a fairy to a very, very wonderful place.
“Was there a girl with a worn, flashy pink gown in the party?,” asked the shaman.
“Yes, there was a very strange girl with flashy costume. Han rode her and they never returned since that day,” Han’s father replied.
“Well, the girl is a fairy instead of a human being. She comes to look after a kind man, a man who is not interested by physical appearance, but he loves a girl because of her inner beauty.”
“Will he return home?,” Han’s father asked again.
“No, he will not be able to be a human anymore. The fairy has put him as her family’s member. He has dead already. You can find his body near the river whose water is red in its hilt, “ said the shaman.

Han’s father went to the river and found his son’s dead body. Then, Han was graved next to his mother’s grave. Han’s father put a piece of bread on his son’s grave instead of spreading flowers.

The next day, Han’s father came to his son’s grave, the bread became smaller. He thought that his son ate the bread. He was very happy that he always put one on his son’s grave everyday. No one could understand whether Han ate the bread or not. No one asked Han’s father why he did this out of thought thing. He just felt happy after putting the bread there.



dream high

I dream high I dream a dream
When it's tough, I close my eyes and
The moment my dream comes true
continue to recall and get up
at the end of fear today too I tremble
Like a baby bird, would it fall, unable to fly
repeatedly I can do it, can my dream come true
every time I'm fearful, my belief walking step by step again

I dream high I dream a dream
When it's tough, I close my eyes and
The moment my dream comes true
continue to recall and get up

I believe I can fly high
one day me above the sky
wings stretched out, more free than anyone else
flying rising high
I need bravery to overcome
firstly pick myself up rise again and dare to run
once again believe in me and my destiny

climb over every wall taller than me
I dream high I dream a dream
When it's tough, I close my eyes and
The moment my dream comes true
continue to recall and get up
I believe I can fly high

one day me above the sky
wings stretched out, more free than anyone else
flying rising high
Dream high a chance to fly high
Now bye bye to all that hurts

try flying high like the stars in the sky
your dream will unfold
starting from now
don't be afraid of the future made by your hands
now walk totally confident

unstoppable destiny is destiny
now we soar up high
for you, this whole new fantasy
so from now, take my hand here
from now on, our aim
one dream and not give up
youthful passion all here dream high

I dream high I dream a dream
When it's tough, I close my eyes and
The moment my dream comes true
continue to recall and get up

I believe I can fly high
one day me above the sky
wings stretched out, more free than anyone else
flying rising high

Minggu, 15 Mei 2011

kesepian hanyut dalam kesendirian

serpihan haiku kini trsa hilang
butiran kalbu terbang ke awan
kerapuhan yang kian mendalam
perih yang slalu kurasakan
seakan jiwaraga ku melayang
....,ratapan keluhan serta derita bersarang
bercampur dalam hatiku yang terkaram
inilah cobaan yang kini kursakan
tuk menemukan jatidiri yang hilang
rahasia hati yang tlah tersebar
,,,,,mataku memandang ke arah yang tak terarah
terlintas bayangan yang tak terulang
henignya fajar seakan mengarungi keindahan
menyelimuti jiwa yang kesepian
yang terpaku membeku membisu sendirian
tanpa secercah harapan
tanpa semaknapun datang
sekejap penderitaan yang begitu mencekam

because i'm stupid

nae meorineun neomuna nappaseo
neo hanapakke nan moreugo tareun sarameun pagoitteneun 
ireon naema eumdo moreugettji
neoui harue naran eoptgettji tto chu;eokjoch'a eopgettjiman
neoman paraman pogoli neun nan
chakku nunmuli heuregeisseo
neoui dwaet moseubeul poneungetdo nan haengbogiya
ajik naui maerumeul molllado kkeutnae seuch/ideusi gado
niga neomu pogosip'eu malen neomu kyeondigi himdeul
nal en neuru
l saranghanda ipgae maemdola
honja dasi tto crying for you
honja dasi tto missing for you
baby i love u,i'm waiting for u
neoui hareu nan eoptgettji tto kieokjochia eopgettjiman
naoman paraman pogoittneun honjachiceoekeul mandeulgo isseo
naegen sarngiran areumdaun sangch;eokal'a
neol yeppeun misoreul poado hamkke nan utjido mothae
niga neomy saenggaknaneun nalenkaseum siringo seulpeun maleneun
niga pogosipta ipgae maemdola
honja dasi tto crying for u
honja dasi tto missing for u
baby i love u,i;m waiting for u
bye bye never say goodbye
ireojke chapji mothajiman
i need u amu maldo mothae i want u paraedo dasi paraedo
niga neomu pogosip'eun nalen neomu kyeondigi himdeul
naleneun neoreul saranghanda ipgae maemdola
honja dasi tto crying for u
honja dasi tto missing for u
baby i love u,i'm waiting for u